Friday, November 08, 2013

That's not my obligation.

Dear my friends,

Study aboard is an extremely special experience.
It'll push you to know outside world from your comfortable circle, and to improve your language skills.
As my known, the most effective method to make people "grow up".
At here, not only in physically grow up, but also mentally.

It means "Try your best to face anything in your life."; it's the only way to grow up and respect the people who's trying to help you.
To grow up, must to face difficult things in your life, to challenge them, to conquer them, even to adapt them.
In these process, the most important thing is: Do it by yourself first. This is the spirit.
Haven't enough ability to read foreign literature wouldn't make you embarrassed. Do nothing but only throw your homework to your friends would made you embarrassed. Whatever you can submit your homework in the end.

Of course, I can do you a favor. But as a record, that's not my obligation. So, please don't expect me to put your staff at the first place. Because you escaped from your duty, also an evidence to prove that you didn't respect your friends and yourself.
Obviously, you have no rights to ask me about your staff, so don't ask me when we meet up.

Because this is the social manner.